Time to move on
You may have noticed that I haven’t been active on the blogging world as much as I was before. I’ve been having a few real life issues. I recently spilt up with my boyfriend of 7 years. I met him when I was 15 years old but we didn’t date till I was almost 16. We’ve had a few break ups in the past and each time we would end up getting back. I was the one that broke us up each time, with the same reason. This time it isn’t any different.
He was a wonderful boyfriend and I was extremely lucky to have met him. He taught me a lot about life, protected me all these years and grew up together with me. I know he still really loves me and wish for us to be together forever, however I won’t be able to fulfil his wish. I’m just not the right girl for him. I sincerely wish him the best of luck with his life and find the right girl.
I will need to carry on with my life. I have many things I want to do, and now that my weekends are all going to be free I can attempt all those things. These include a few online related things I’m going to do:
- Blog more often
- Return all these comment that’s been piling up
- Blog hop and visit my friend’s blogs that I haven’t visited in a while
- Release some more necklaces to my store
I’m going to be adding more necklaces to my store as a few are already sold out. I haven’t updated it for almost a month now. I am expecting new stock of crystals next week so I’m really exited about that. I will try my best to release new pieces at least twice a month. I’ll love to hear your thoughts and suggestion about my store and what sort of styles you’ll like to see in the future 
Sorry to hear about your breakup, perhaps it was for the best? But a 7 year old relationship, wow, it must be really hard since it has been such a long time.
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For me, it is always so sad to hear (well, read) about breakups. It makes me feel really terrible inside for the parties involved, and the feelings one might be going through. But you sound A-OK, so I’m glad.
It sounds like you guys might possibly still be friends at least. I think the best thing about falling in love even though it might break – is that you learn a lot – you seriously learn a lot, whether you are still friends or not.
I’m sure you’ll get all those things done. I’ve got a lot on my plate at the moment too… even though I cut down my websites I still have work to do on them, but I know the workload should ease pretty soon, once I get used to balancing it with uni.
I never got around to opening my shop either… I just didn’t have time and I don’t think I do anymore.
It’s definitely something I’ll have in mind for the future though. 
Yeah that guy was so rude! I hate how they tell us to respect our elders when all they are is rude. They really are some times.
OH MAN. I think instant noodle is so bad though, especially if you eat a lot of it. I agree though, it’s so easy. But I usually just buy food on uni days, and that is usually sushi haha.
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As they say, when one door shuts, another one opens. I’m glad you’re okay and hopefully you’ll meet someone better in good time. It’s okay, I haven’t around much either.
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Wow, 7 years and now broken up, that must be really hard.
You seem to be handling it really well and very maturely though, so good for you! It’s always good to try and see the positive in every situation, like you stated you learned a lot about yourself and grew up with him. He’ll be someone you never forget and will always be apart of who you are today. It’s a good way to think. I personally believe everything happens for a reason, even if we don’t know the reason right away. I’ve been blogging like crazy lately, it’s become so addicting.
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I wish you good luck on your “new path of life”. It must have been a really difficult desicion, 7 years is a long time. But it was a brave one. And I applaud you two for it. In the long run..you know you made the right desicion.
I just checked out your store, it’s beautiful!
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Woah! Sorry to hear about the breakup. 7 years is no short time. All those memories together and what not. I know breakups are never easy. Sure some are easier than others, depending on the duration of your relationship and how deep your affection for each other is, but it is never a thing to be looked at lightly. But as you said, if it is better that way for both of you, then perhaps it is the best decision.
I’m not totally over the iPhone, but for now I am more interested in getting the Nokia N97 Mini. It is no smartphone, but that’s alright for me.
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I’m sorry to hear about the breakup but you sound like you’re doing it for the best and that you’re strong about it. Which is good (: You’ll be okay, girl.
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I’m sorry about your boyfriend, it seems really sad you broke up with him. Boyfriend of 7 years? That’s a long time, you must of loved each other so very much to stay together for 7 years.
But things happen, best of luck to him and you!
YAY. I can’t wait for you to blog more, we need to talk more!!
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Thanks by the way, I’ve just bought a hair mask from tescos! I’m gonna try it tonight! Thanks so much for the advice!
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I”m terribly sorry to hear about this breakup. I’ve been hearing a lot of long term relationship breakups and it truly breaks my heart just hearing it! It also scares me when it’ll come to my future relationships but I hope you stay strong and think positively <3
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i’m sorry to hear about your relationship, but you sound really clear-headed about it, and that’s really admirable! i hope you get through it ok – remember that your blog is always here with people to listen and support you.
take care!
re: your comment – i didn’t actually pick a dress yet! i had a hard time deciding, hence the blog post, haha. i’m still kind of torn though. i guess i’ll just have to shop some more?
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Break ups suck, but as you said, you get to fulfil some of your life goals. It seems you ended on good terms, and some of my friends are still good mates with their exs so you never know, might get an awesome friendship outta it
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Sorry to hear that you broke up, though if you’ve been breaking up with him for the same reasons before, it’s probably best for the both of you this way.
Glad to hear that your store is doing well, and I can’t wait to see new pieces! Do you think you could do earrings or bracelets in the future?
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Yeah my hair used to be naturally curly… It is pretty rare. I’m glad my hair is straight now though.
I can feel the difference before and after I used the hair mask! I never knew hair mask existed until you told me about it, ha. It’s because this is my first time dying my hair and stuff.
Yay, blog more!
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